This week i have been thinking about how the words we use become the house that we live in – The Power Of Words.
Words have the power to inspire, heal, and transform. Just as they can have a positive effect, they can also be hurtful, especially when directed at ourselves.
Quite often no-one could say anything more damaging than the negative self talk that goes on within the chatter of our minds.
Do you really want to know how someones life is going …. If so, just listen to the words they use.
I truly believe that you are the embodiment of your words.
So if you meet someone who is constantly talking about illness (even though they are a martyr and just get one with it !) well its likely that this person is going to be manifesting more of that illness. It serves a purpose as it gets them the attention that they so crave, however they do not realise that the words become the house.
So if you meet someone is constantly talking about misery and despair, then it is most likely that their life is a reflection of what they are saying.
All they will see is misery and miss all the great things that are right in front of them.
We all know people like this in our lives . It is also likely that if you spend enough time with them that you will either feel miserable or unwell or completely drained. It can even be draining to be in their company.
I believe we are either drains or radiators , these drains (energy vampires) will leave you feeling warm and fulfilled whilst you leave behind all of your precious energy.
Recognise who is around you and whether they are drains or radiators. If you constantly feel drained in the presence of certain people then you may need to look at how much time you spend with them.
Also recognise if your model of the world is half full or half empty.
If you see the down in everything , feel like things never go your way or find that you are always focussed on your illnesses then you may want to do some work with positive affirmations or seek a Life Coach.
I find it really useful to have an affirmation / gratitude journal and write as well as speak affirmations when i need to. The more you say them and believe them, the more power you are giving them, and better the chance of you manifesting them.
Here are a few examples of affirmations that I like to use:
I trust my intuition.
I am a beautiful being of life.
The universe will support me.
I choose to bring positive energy into my day, as well as my life.
I attract all that I need in my life that is for my highest good.
I am strong, balanced, and peaceful.
I am love.
I accept and have faith in a higher energy.
Thank you for reading.
Have an amazing day.
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